Getting Older - Blog
"I'm getting older. I think I'm aging well." - Billie Eilish - Getting Older What are the things that I realize as I'm getting older? I'm 27 years old and prefer to blame other people instead of always over-self-blaming. I recognized that I used to self-blame myself a lot in every scenario. It was kind, but in the long run, it was damaging. It was damaging self-confidence and self-esteem (honestly I just didn't know the difference between these two words, but you get the point). I knew that it was happening, therefore I tried to start to not blame myself. I'm not blaming others 'out loud'. I just keep it for myself or when I'm ranting to the people that I can trust. This is better for me but I wish I can do better. I hope this is just a phase that I can overcome. I hope instead of blaming anyone, I can just be understanding of the situation and be kind to everyone, including myself. I hope I can get wiser than this because deep down I know...